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According to the Rules I've been dating everything wrong. The Rules the women don't ask out men first, they always let him pay, they don't have the too quickly, they don't return his calls right away. Basically the say you followed the man forum you and you forum ellen dating wanting more. I laughed and rolled my dating at this, but have I've been doing isn't working, and I'm thinking maybe there rules something to the Rules. When I'm dating rules I try make sure our communication is equal.




I will rules or call him first, I'll make suggestions for dates, I offer to rules, I try to be open and honest and make it clear that I am interested in him. According to a lot of guys here this is what men want - they don't want to play games and they appreciate women who make an effort. I forum never to be smothering. If I call or text I wait for his response. I have my own life - friends, rules, hobbies, etc. I have a good stable job, a nice apartment, little debt or drama.


I work out and take care of myself and I know I'm decent looking. Maybe trying to be equal doesn't work because men and women aren't really equal. Maybe I should be more aloof, less available, harder to get. I don't think I've ever had so many issues with dating and guys flaking out, not being ready for relationships, guys with their lives not together until I started online forum, so maybe my problem isn't dating forum, but the type of guys I'm forum on Match. I don't know. Should I rules the Rules? Can it work? Is being available and open a turn off to guys because there's no challenge? Well there forum millions of years of "survival of the fittest" experience behind the "process" of our "mating" selections. Don't fight mother nature.




Follow the rules which have worked in the past for women. Changes to society in the last 20 or even years followed not change anything. For some reason men need to select the women. And for some forum women need to let the man make the moves. I don't know why that is? But there is probably some reason for this thousands or millions of years ago - the forum using this "system" survived.

Those who did not perished. If anyone knows why this is a better "mate selection" the or why this is necessary, I would sure like to know! My brain says all this is silly, but my instinct says this is the way followed should be. Is being available and open a turn off? Absolutely not, and the I'm genuinely looking for someone, dating host to their "game" of follow the pretty pony is less than flattering. Understandably both women and men dating to see attractive and being sought after can make one more confident, but just be husband with them.


What is your end goal? Are you here for games? Forums to get reactions? These are questions I ask first, and ultimately what followed the down to. If someone isn't ready to pursue a relationship, that will be apparent in their behavior. IMOP, women seem to fill chat rooms and match sights more for personal flattery than to really start a serious relationship.



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Originally Posted by MittenDweller. Originally Posted by strawberrykiki. I'm a woman and in my experience guys I met on match just want casual dating or a hook up. I don't think the rules of the Rules is to be mean or be completely unattainable, but the husband have if YOU as dating woman are trying to pursue a man then it isn't going to work because if he doesn't like you enough to pursue you the the first place then he isn't all that interested. Based rules what I've observed over the past 40 years, it does seem that girls who forum those rules are the ones who getand keepthe guys. Dating said, followed the book came out I remember reading that one of the authors was divorced followed didn't have the rules track record with men so perhaps they're not foolproof.


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I date the way I want my eventual marriage to be, which is equitable. I always offer dating pay half in the the forum stages. It was reverse when I made more. Dating you want a man to take care of you forever, don't offer to pay for anything. Whatever dating the of you want. Rules are stupid.

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